Four gift ideas for that hard-to-buy-for person

It’s that time of year when hoards of shoppers flood city streets and malls in search of the perfect gift for each and every person on their list.  Chances are, you are one of the masses.  And chances are, there is at least one person in your life that has left you tapping your chin as you consider what on Earth to get them.  Well, stop fretting!  Here are a few great ideas to get you going.

Gift Pairing

Gift pairing is the fine art of bringing two or three gifts together that create a whole experience.  Instead of just giving a book, consider pairing it with a bottle of wine and a candle, which suggests a warm evening curled up on the sofa for some sacred alone time.  Instead of just giving a DVD, perhaps pair it with gourmet popcorn and fine loose leaf tea.  By grouping gifts together it shows that you put forth the effort to think about how the receiver would best enjoy the gift. Continue reading »

02 Feb

Depressed Mode – Miscarriage

Category: Advice, Family

The previous of post of mine do resembles the continuous sadness that had happened to me n beloved husband several days ago. MISCARRIAGE… its really a scary word .. however it did happened to me and in fact the pain that each of every woman experiences the miscarriage were really HURTS!!!… It just like your backbone and lower parts of your body are tearing apart ” just like the movie “ALIEN” one of the captain body was cut in half.

Argh… that feeling .. really hurt and painful, can’t bear to have it again. Alhamdulillah, Allah The Greatest had helped me through the way and easily all the blood clots (nearly 500gm) were bursting out to the floor with all the tons of blood soaking to my b/w baju kurung that I had wore on Monday.

Hafila, Ayu, Nora, Pruz, Nad, and other colleagues had advice me and Fila sent me to the nearest hospital that was at the HOSPITAL SULTANAH AMINAH (HSA) JOHOR BAHRU. At first, I’m really afraid to go to the public hospital after what I’d heard from others on their bad service and unfriendly doctors and nurses. Luckily, when its my turn I didn’t felt that they are ignoring me nor rude at me however their service were very professional and treat me as first class patient :P…. sometimes I felt that at KPJ is much more lower service than HSA.

Alright… where was I? Yeah … than they (doctors… most of them are practical students from Monash University – one of the best medical university available in Malaysia…yup and they supported HSAJB.. could you just believed it?) had done ULTRASOUND scan and done a thorough survey report based on the tons of questions he asked me while im in PAINNNN~~~ sangat sakit okkk .. mcm nak beranak pun ada .. sakit senggugut tersakit didunia.. the most painful menstrual period pain I’ve ever had!!! gosh…. dont want again!!! Then I did said to the doctor that i’m in pain.. and he quickly ask the nurse to provide me with painkiller jab…. ahhh what a relief~~~

Afterwards the most critical part is that the chinese doctor inserted some device into my tut~~ and dig something into it and even add some anti-bacterial liquid into my womb.. what da~~~ I nearly shouted at him.. but my patience was above all.. I really jadi an innocent girl laa at that time.. ahakz… Well after that they realize that there still bits of clots of blood cant be removed in the womb and needed D&C tomorrow. I were asked to fast at 4pm in order for them to get me ready for the ‘deadliest D&C’ …. its something like bottle brush being stuff into my tut~~ and rolling around inside.. OMG… I wont be doing that (I said to myself… Allah please help me .. I dont want the D&C.. i rather have COMPLETE ABORTION than INCOMPLETE ABORTION)…

Sample of videos on D&C (Dont PLAY it if you are afraid of blood and operation of body parts)

I can’t sleep later that night just imagine what is going to be happened to me tomorrow~~~ jeng2 the next day….

There were at least 5-6 doctors(mixed Chinese and Indians) accompanied by senior doctor that is Dr. Faizal (most coolest dr. i’ve known.. very the bald and shiny) ahakz.. still young tho… well the best part is that the Dr. Faizal asked me how’s my condition this morning and all those doctors looking at me anxiously :P… I said to him ” Im fine, all the clots of blood seem to have gone and my pad have only blood stain…” then the doctor asked the incharged doctors to put me into the treatment room for another ULTRASOUND scan to find out whether my status of INCOMPLETE ABORTION going to be changed to COMPLETE ABORTION… Well guess what .. my prayers had went to Allah … and I DONT HAVE TO DO DNC, only an appointment with the Dr. Faizal on this 4th august 2010 at hospital pontian will actually provide with the latest result of my womb condition.

I’m really grateful to Allah and with his blessing, I would be the most luckiest Khalifah in the world… 🙂 Now I still need some rest and do some pantang(do’s and don’ts) during this miscarriage period. The MC only give me 7 days of rest and I would have it as fullest resting day of my life. Do’a for me ok.

09 Jul

A joyous Eid Mubarak 2008

I would like to take the opportunity to wish all Muslims a very joyous Eid Mubarak! on occassion of Eid-al-Fitri, 1st of Shawwal which falls today. To all my family across PONTIAN, BATU PAHAT, KLANG, PJ, SINGAPORE and even in UK. Wishing all happy holidays and have a pleasant visit to relative’s houses. Don’t forget to have a safe journey and make sure all had been prepared to bring to the destination.

The picture below is very unique as for advertising McDonald’s French fries that look like a sunset and together with its wishes of eid mubarak.

01 Oct

My Joyous Day…

Category: Family

Today is my birthday on the 27th September 2008, I’ve got a special gift from my darling. I’ll upload the pictures of the present later in this page.

27 Sep

Baby boys names

Category: Family, Interesting

I like reading books in my past time covering all ranges of information about art, sciences and living skills. I also especially like to read on interesting information about pregnancy so that when the day comes when I am ready, I will be prepared for that moment. I know many friends who have been or are undergoing pregnancy and do not know what name to choose for their new addition to the family. Perhaps I can recommend them these names for baby boys which I found just recently. There is an interesting collection of baby names here which I think they would like a lot and will probably pick one as the name for their new baby. I really like the way the site presents itself as a resource for baby names and would certainly serve as a useful site for expecting mothers and those who are looking for a name for their first child or children.

20 Jun

Al-Fatihah for Abang Yi

Category: Family

Abg Yi.. the one who’s wearing black shirt..Al-fatihah..amin

This morning around 7am, I’d received bad news from my best friend that her brother died in car crash accident. She have to go back kelantan and see her family however she asked me if ever I can lend her some money for the journey. Without any hesitation, I’d gave her money plus extras to her Mom and Dad and give condolence to them.

Its really a heartbreak moment whenever our loved ones have died in that situation and never have the opportunity to seek forgiveness and time spent together with the family. She regretted that she did not pickup the last called that her brother (Abd Yi) made last 3 days ago. She had some disagreement opinions with her bro over some small matters. I hope she can take control of herself and accept the “qada’ n qadar” from Allah swt. Deep inside his feeling, im surely that he had already forgive her and love her so much.

I’ve once felt what she had been right now going through but only mine was gradually sadness and know that death will surely come to the one that I loved most (my dad).

Therefore, if you’re Muslim or not, please pray for him to better a life after death. May he rest in peace.


02 Mar